So your beard is getting thick, luxurious and just friggin’ awesome, except… a bunch of scruffy hairs stick out in weird directions and just refuse to grow in the direction you want.
It’s so damn frustrating when you set out on your bearded adventure picturing a distinguished flowing beard that could win you a championship, but instead you see a random mixture of porcupine spines poking through an oversized Brillo pad.
Whatever happens, don’t give up! Even if you’re despairing about how your bearded reality isn’t matching your early expectations, there’s always hope. The night is darkest before the dawn.
Being a rugged bro requires work, not to mention TLC. And you’ll need both of those in order to get your unruly mane growing evenly and in the same direction.
But we know you’re a man of determination, as well as distinction, who will do whatever it takes to be the one true master of his facial domain. So it’s our pleasure to give you these crucial tips on how to train your beard to grow and flow the way you want. With time and regular grooming, your Admiral’s pennant will fly proudly and pristinely in the face of all challenges.
And we haven’t forgotten your mo, either. We’ll also show you how to train your mustache.
Well, there are several reasons.
No. Nope. Not at all. It’s a myth. The end.
The Rugged Bros to the rescue! Here’s how to take control and show your beard who’s boss!
To get your beard growing in the same direction:
The more you train your beard, the easier it becomes to style.
More about each of these steps below...
A clean beard can be tamed. It’s virtually impossible to train a beard if it’s dirty and if the skin beneath it isn’t cared for as well.
A dedicated beard conditioner shampoo will cleanse your whiskers gently but thoroughly. It will also help clean the pores of your skin and remove itchy dead skin flakes.
AVOID: Regular hair shampoos! They’re too harsh and will strip your skin and whiskers of essential moisture and nutrients, leaving hair brittle and dry and skin dry and irritated. Brittle beard hairs go haywire.
AVOID: Blow drying. Direct high heat can damage hairs and make them brittle with split ends.
When you hop out of the shower after washing your mane, towel dry it gently so it’s still damp. Apply beard oil before your beard hair dries. If it dries out completely, a longer beard can curl and become bushy and frizzy.
Rub a few drops of beard oil into the hairs and right down to the skin to nourish and hydrate everything. Don’t use too much though. More is not always better. You want soft, glossy whiskers, not greasy and heavy ones. The oil will take away frizz and leave whiskers soft and primed for what's next.
With oil in it, brush your whiskers in a downward motion – or in whatever direction it is you want them to flow. We recommend downwards because it shows off length and shape. A beard with downward pointing hairs follows the contours of your jaw and chin, frames your face, stops hairs from sticking out sideways, and enables you to bring the tips of longer hairs neatly together.
Be sure you use a wild boar bristle beard brush. It distributes the oil evenly, which is crucial for training and taming of the hairs, and it won’t tug. Do not use a comb because it will snag and may cause static.
Brush every day. By all means do it multiple times. And try brushing before bed as a means of training the hairs 24/7.
Is balm really necessary? For a medium to long beard, absolutely YES! Just like gel or paste help shape your head’s hair, beard balm is a vital step in how to train your beard’s most stubborn hairs and it completes the team alongside the shampoo, oil and brush.
Nope. Applying direct heat makes hair dry, brittle and weak. On top of that, it can’t get down to the base of your whiskers, against the skin, like a beard brush can.
First, snip away or pull out any persistent flyaways.
Second, trim your beard to the shape you want – or have a professional barber do it. Evenly trimmed hairs look way less wild. Again, less is more! Sometimes all that’s needed is to clean up the sideburns to reduce curly bulk and to sculpt the outer lines.
Your mustache has a growth pattern just like your beard and head hair. That means some training is in order. If you want a long mo, like a handlebar, you’ll especially need to coax the hairs to bend to your will and stay out of your mouth - and your wife’s/girlfriend’s mouth.
Follow the same grooming routine as you use for your beard. Wash, oil, brush, and balm.
Once the mo hairs reach a decent length, brush them daily with your beard brush to train them to follow a new pattern. Again, a brush won’t snag/tug like a comb and it gets right down to the skin and pores.
To shape your mustache, again use the beard balm. It’s gentle and nourishes the hairs.
As your mo grows, some hairs will curl towards your mouth and may tickle your lips and nose. If you feel like trimming these hairs, that’s your choice. But you don’t need to, especially if you’re going for a spectacular mustache. You can oil, balm and brush them away and into the shape you want.
Be consistent. If you truly want to train your beard to grow in the direction you want, and to always look healthy and sexy, you gotta brush everyday and do the washing and oiling a few times a week.
It’s not hard, it just requires some manly discipline and patience. And it pays off big time.